Because Choosing the Right Wedding Photographer Means Preserving Your Memories for a Lifetime
It is crucial to understand how to choose the right wedding photographer because, that’s right, these aren’t just wedding photos—these are your memories. The moments you’ll look back on for years to come. The quiet in-between glances. The big celebration moments. The little things you didn’t even notice happening on the day. And your photographer? They’re the one responsible for capturing it all.
So if you take nothing else away from this blog, take this:
Choosing the right wedding photographer is one of the most important decisions you’ll make for your big day.
When you flip through your wedding album years from now, I want you to feel everything all over again. The butterflies. The joy. The tears. That quiet touch. That wild dance. That cake smash you almost forgot about. You deserve to relive it all.
And here’s the truth:
Your photographer needs to know how important that job is. This is not just a business transaction—it’s personal.
That said… if you decide I’m not your photographer, that’s okay.
You’ll only regret it forever, but hey… totally fine. 😉Just kidding (sort of).
What really matters is that your memories are in the right hands.
So let’s talk about how to make sure they are.
7 Must-Ask Questions When Choosing a Wedding Photographer
1. Do You Actually Like Them?
Have a face-to-face or a video call. Your photographer is the person who will be with you ALL day—closer than your MOH or even your partner for most of it.
If you wouldn’t grab a coffee with them, maybe don’t hand them the most important job of your wedding day.
Care to get to know me more? Check out some of my personal blogs where I tell you a little bit more about my personal life.
2. Can You See a Full Wedding Album?
Instagram grids are not enough. Ask to see a complete gallery—ceremony to send-off.
Are they consistent or just showing off their lucky shots? If they dodge the question, RUN.
3. Are They Comfortable Using Flash (OCF)?
Natural light is lovely… until you’re indoors. Or it’s dark. Or cloudy.
Ask if they know how to use off-camera flash. If they say, “I’m a natural light photographer,” dig deeper. A pro should know how to shoot in any light.
4. Is Their Style Timeless?
Trendy edits are fun now, but will you still love that dark/moody or overexposed/light-and-airy style in 30 years?
Go with a style that will stand the test of time.
5. How Experienced Are They?
Experience matters—especially when things don’t go as planned.
Ask how many weddings they’ve shot on their own (not as a second shooter).
6. Do They Have Liability Insurance?
It’s not the sexiest question, but it’s important.
Some venues require photographers to have it. Plus, it shows they take their business (and your memories) seriously.
7. What’s the Biggest Mistake They’ve Made?
And—this part is key—how did they handle it?
You want someone who can think fast, adapt under pressure, and roll with the unexpected.
Still building your list of questions? WeddingWire has a great forum with more great ones to ask your wedding photographer from real brides.
Final Advice From a Photographer Who’s Seen It All
Whatever you do, I beg you, please avoid the “free” route.
I’m talking about the second cousin building their portfolio… Aunt Susan with the outdated camera… your bestie who dabbles in photography and wants to gift it to you.
I’ve heard the horror stories. I’ve witnessed the tears.
This is your one and only wedding day. Protect it.
You’ve got this. And now you’ve got the tools to make a confident, informed decision on how to choose your wedding photographer.
And hey, if you feel like we’d vibe… I’d love to hear from you. 😉
Xoxo,
Victoria V.
Want to explore even more expert advice? The Knot has a helpful guide on how to choose your wedding photographer.
